Wednesday, October 05, 2005
looking at those youth now, reminded me of my past... falling in love, wanting to do more for the others... etc... just wanna share what this author shares... which i m very very impressed... and yah...
-MADE FOR EACH OTHER-
This is now bone of my bones,
and flesh of my fleshs;
she shall be called "woman"
for she was taken out of man...
sometimes we keep asking ourselves, who is he/her, when m i going to meet my soulmate, why is love so hard to find, and why cant i chase him/her now? when then can we start a r/s? y must he/she be christian too? and why this and why that!
"My Child, what you must try to see is that nothing has changed. When the Maker brings you your wife/husband, you will aware that it was He who make you for each other and He who planned your meeting and in that moment, sing a song of praise to Him."
-Trust the Maker to bring what was Good-
what the author learnt after KISSING DATING GOODBYE
and what i hav learnt...
what is your will God? is she the one? help me to be patient? show me when to act. help me trust you... (these happens when you in earthly ways, like someone, and you wish to express ur feelings to her, but unsure whether issit God's will and timing to act)
Author beliefs (i agree with him)
-that lifestyle of short-term relationships was a detour from serving God as a single, so best term is... while u kept ur social life, female/male frens, and desire to get married one day, u should stop dating!
having a relationship that doesnt submit to God, will lead u to sinful desirer and how selfish u r, and also u hurt the other party...
what did it mean to truly love a girl? what did it feel like to really be pure- in body and heart? and how did God want us to spend our single years? was it merely a time to try out different girls romantically (WHICH IS NO!)
why not enjoy frenship with opposite gender but use out energy as singles to serve God?
ppl often ask, if u dont date, how u end up married?
when u reach a point that u r ready for marriage, then u say hello to courtship... which u hav waited for romance as a singles...
dont let impatient run a upper hand on u, dont communicate ur interest until u are ready to start a r/ship... that has a clear purpose and direction.
question u shld ask urselves...
1) are u prepared spiritually and emotionally for marriage?
2) could u provide fro a wife and family?
3) was this God's time for me to pursue a r/ship?
this is only the part one of the book... and i believe that we shld rethink ourself and our life... whether we shld be thinking of marriage at this point of time... for me... i guess is no... coz i still hav plenty to offer God my service... as a single... and i believe God going to use me and mold me deeper before he allow someone to enter my life...
even how much i desirer and admirer someone... i guess, i gonna let go now... and if she's God's will for me, God will preserve... if not, God has greater plans... yupz... so people who is reading... I'hav grown up... HAHA... no more plan b for me... is only God's plan...
i can still like her, but i wun think that much beyond... i wanna concentrate on my Life with God first...
-out-
Nelvin Blogged @ 10:17 PM
