Saturday, December 31, 2005
-To: MMong-
i dunno when u felt that way about the situation you are in right now... u might not even read this blog, i juz wanna share some things with you. and hope u understand what i m trying to say.
sometimes, being in a group takes a very big effort to be with. if u dun share out wats wrong with it, u cant able to know whats going on. sometimes, it takes juz a little more effort in making things works...
if ur frens dun call u, u call them... its hav to be 2 ways... 2 hands to clap... my dear, sometimes, u need to open alittle bit more... u r part of them, u always be part of them... no one and no body can pull ur presences u had place in them...
often, such outings is so last minute... and when u r busy with other stuff, how to blend everything well together? a little more effort...
i m not saying u or wat... i juz wanna let u know... we didnt forsake u... u juz hav to find a balance in ur values of frens... who u put first...
tats a BIG question u hav to take...
Church Frens or Outside Frens...
who u value more...
if u think others are more happening and interesting... u will find them more fun... but if u think Church frens after going so much thick and thin, and u think we didnt value u, u r abit not fair to them...
after all, no man are prefect... they dont always take the first move... they are forgetful ppl. they... juz not prefect...
we cant always do the first move... sometimes... u hav to make an effort...
lets be fair to each other...
can?
and i reali hope u could come...
i reali do...
u may hav ur plans...
but...
its who u value...
Nelvin Blogged @ 12:59 AM
