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Sometimes, in our relentless efforts
to find the
person we love we fail to recognize
and
appreciate the people who love us. We
miss out on
so many beautiful things simply
because we allow
ourselves to be enslaved by our own
selfish
concerns. Go for the man of deeds and
not for the
man of words for you will find
rewarding
happiness not with the man you love
but the man
who loves you more. The best lovers
are those
capable of loving from a distance far
enough to
allow the person to grow, but never
too far to
feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you
have to
stop loving. It only means that you
allow that
person to find his own happiness
without
expecting him/her to come back.
Letting go is not
just setting the other person free,
but it is
also setting yourself free from all
bitterness,
hatred and anger that you keep in your
heart. Do
not let the bitterness rare away your
strength
and weaken your faith and never allow
pain to
dishearten you, but rather let
yourself grow with
wisdom in bearing it. You may find
peace in just
loving someone from a distance not
expecting
anything in return. But be careful for
this can
sustain life but can never give enough
room for
us to grow. We can all survive with
just
beautiful memories of the past but
real peace and
happiness come only with open
acceptance of what
reality is today. There comes a time
in our lives
when we chance upon someone so nice
and beautiful
and we just find ourselves getting so
intensely
attracted to that person. This feeling
soon
becomes a part of our everyday lives
and
eventually consumes our thoughts and
actions. The
sad part of it is when we begin to
realize that
this person feels nothing more for us
than just a
friendship, we start our desperate
attempt to get
noticed and be closer but in the end
our efforts
are still unrewarded and we end up
being sorry
for ourselves. You don't have to
forget someone
you love. What you need to learn is
how to accept
the verdict of reality without being
bitter or
sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off
giving that
dedication and love to someone more
deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be
sensible
and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not
only to your feelings but to reason as
well.
Always remember that if you lose
someone today,
it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow.
If you lose love that doesn't mean
that you
failed in love. Cry if you have to,
but make it
sure that the tears wash away the hurt
and the
bitterness that the past has left with
you. Let
go of yesterday and love will find its
way back
to you. And when it does, pray that it
may be the
love that will stay and last a
lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life.
One is as
though nothing is a miracle. The other
is though
everything is a miracle.
Albert Einstein.
Nelvin Blogged @ 7:38 AM
